Hindi Dahil Hindi Kayo Pareho Ay Mali Siya at Tama Ka.

One of the most difficult things to do is to change a person to become the person we wanted them to be. Madalas ito ay nauuwi sa away, sigalot at gulo. In the first place, we have to ask ourselves that we fell in love with the person because of who they are. Noong hindi pa kayo, nabubuhay na siya mag-isa ng wala ka, bakit ngayon na naging kayo na, kelangan mong baguhin sya?

Hindi dahil hindi kayo pareho ng opinyon ay mali sya at tama ka. Magkaiba lang kayo. Accept the differences and don’t assume that others are wrong simply because they do not agree with you.

When we accept and acknowledge that not all are the same, and realise that differences exist, mas magkakaroon ka ng kaluwagan sa paghinga. Hindi stressful at walang masyadong disagreements sa buhay dahil tanggap mo sa sarili mo na iba talaga sya.

Ang isang relasyon ay parang isang team – composed of different people with different characters and qualities. Sa basketball, kelangan may point guard, may sa rebound at defense. Hindi pwedeng lahat taga dala ng bola kelangan din mag gwardya at may point-shooter. Ganyan din ang isang samahan or even politics. Hindi pwedeng lahat ay sang-ayon sa administrasyon otherwise, the power could be abused by those incumbent because no one stands for the opposition party.

In our relationships, we must accept that differences exist. Like a team with different qualities, we must work together and put aside differences but with one mind and one goal to succeed. When we combine our talents in common, mas marami tayo na-achieve. Iwasan na natin ang bangayan at siraan, dahil hindi ito nagdudulot ng maganda. Better is we accept that there are difference and complexities, but our goal is to achieve the best thing more that we can achieve by ourselves. Totoo ang kasabihan, “walang sinuman ang nabubuhay para sa sarili lamang.” No man is an island. We all need someone’s strengths and inputs to validate if what we have in mind, is better or could be improved.

Minsan kapag naging conceited tayo na parang tayo lang ang mag exclusivity and monopoly ng mga ideas, we may fail to recognize the blind-spot, the weak points.

Folly is joy to one who lacks judgment, but a man of understanding walks a straight path. Plansfailfor lackof counsel,but with manyadvisersthey succeed. – Proverbs 15:22

Yung iba ayaw ng may kontra sa kanila. Pero panget ang pelikula na walang kontra-bida. Mas lalong gumaganda ang climax ng isang sine at lalong gumagaling ang leading actors/actresses dahil sa mga supporting roles -kontra bida.

Ganyan din sa buhay, may mga tao na iba ang pananaw kesa sa iyo. Pero hindi ibig sabihin ay mali sila at tama ka kaagad. Tanggapin mo na hindi lang kayo magka pareho. Smile and agree to disagree.

One comment

  1. The same issues from the very beginning of the present administration governs the country, umiikot lang ang bangayan nila sa isang topic, nasa two years na ang bagong leadership but look at them no new topics are being discussed, sabi nga noong Pastor na nakausap ko, the Catholic church keeps on criticising…they want to prolong the useless discussion, then kapag may hindi maganda nangyari sa kanila, sisihin si Pangulo. Separate the church daw pero what they are doing, after pacifying the tension, they will restore it after few months so how to stop the argument. Wala naman improvement sa bangayan nila, they let them the issue as worst as before. Magpapatalo ba ang Catholic, they want to believe they are powerful so they control everything, what if KAUMAY na din
    That is the scenario. Let’s hope for the effective negotiation after the conference, totoo na nga, it is too obvious na may planong paalisin sa pwesto.. ganyan kapag papalapit na ang SONA.

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